Child mental health (roughly up to age 12) – explained simply

From the book – Chapter 12: Child, Teen and Adult Mental Health

Child mental health (roughly up to age 12)

Developmental context

Childhood is a period of rapid growth in: brain development and neural connections; language, cognition, and learning; emotional regulation and social skills; attachment and trust in caregivers.

Common mental-health issues

• Anxiety: separation anxiety, specific phobias, social anxiety, generalised anxiety. May show as clinginess, school refusal, stomach aches, sleep problems.

• Depression: may appear as irritability, tearfulness, loss of interest, school decline, somatic complaints rather than classic sadness.

• Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD): persistent inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that impair functioning at home and school. Not simply naughtiness; involves neurodevelopmental differences.

• Autism spectrum conditions: differences in social communication and interaction; restricted or repetitive behaviours and interests; sensory sensitivities (over- or under-reactivity to sound, light, touch, taste).

• Learning disorders: difficulties in reading (dyslexia), writing (dysgraphia), or math (dyscalculia) despite adequate teaching and intelligence.

• Behavioural disorders: ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) — persistent angry/irritable mood, argumentative behaviour, vindictiveness. Conduct disorder — more severe violation of others' rights (aggression, destruction, deceitfulness, theft).

• Trauma-related difficulties following abuse, accidents, disasters, or witnessing violence.

Role of family and school

• Warm, consistent, and responsive caregiving.

• Clear boundaries with empathy.

• Regular routines (sleep, meals, study, play).

• Limited and age-appropriate screen time.

• Collaboration between parents and teachers.

• Safe school environment with anti-bullying measures.

• Access to school counsellors or child mental-health services when needed.

Read the full chapter – Chapter 12: Child, Teen and Adult Mental Health

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