Why changes are hard?
From the book – Chapter 29: Workplace and Academic Stress
Why changes are hard
Even positive changes bring stress. Our brains like predictability. Big transitions can shake our identity and routines. Common ones include:
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Starting school or a new job
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Moving to a new city or country
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Relationship changes (marriage, separation, divorce)
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Becoming a parent
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Children leaving home
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Illness or disability
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Retirement
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Bereavement
Read the full chapter – Chapter 29: Workplace and Academic Stress
Stories from real life
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More questions
- Moving to a new country (migration) – life transitions
- Becoming a parent – life transitions
- Chronic illness and disability – life transitions
- Caring for others – life transitions
- Retirement and later life – life transitions
- Money and mental health – life transitions
- Resilience in uncertain times – life transitions
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- How to reduce stress – healthy ways that work
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