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Why changes are hard?

From the book – Chapter 29: Workplace and Academic Stress

Why changes are hard

Even positive changes bring stress. Our brains like predictability. Big transitions can shake our identity and routines. Common ones include:

  • Starting school or a new job

  • Moving to a new city or country

  • Relationship changes (marriage, separation, divorce)

  • Becoming a parent

  • Children leaving home

  • Illness or disability

  • Retirement

  • Bereavement

Read the full chapter – Chapter 29: Workplace and Academic Stress

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More on this topic: Stress – causes, symptoms and how to reduce stress at work and in exams

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