Psychology for Everyone

Understanding mindfulness – emotions, thoughts and moods

From the book – Chapter 5: Emotions, Feelings, Thoughts and Moods

Mindfulness

Mindfulness means paying attention to the present moment, on purpose, with openness and without judgement. It is not about emptying the mind or feeling calm all the time. Studies show that regular practice lowers stress, reduces relapse in depression, and improves attention and emotional balance.

Simple practices

  • Mindful breathing: sit comfortably, follow the sensation of the breath. When the mind wanders (it will), gently bring it back. Start with three to five minutes.

  • Body scan: move attention slowly from your toes to your head, noticing sensations.

  • Mindful walking: feel each step, the air, the sounds.

  • Mindful eating: take the first three bites slowly, noticing taste and texture.

  • Five senses check: name five things you see, four you touch, three you hear, two you smell, one you taste.

  • Everyday mindfulness: brush your teeth, wash dishes, or drink tea with full attention.

Read the full chapter – Chapter 5: Emotions, Feelings, Thoughts and Moods

Stories from real life

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Shloks

  • Bhagavad Gita 2.62–2.63 – Dwelling on objects, attachment is born; from attachment, desire; from desire, anger. From anger, delusion; from delusion, loss of memory; from loss of memory, ruin of…

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